How it all began

Ralph and I have been together since the summer of 2008 but it all began in 1992. Ralph's sister, Colleen and I have been best friends since 6th grade and we grew up at each other's houses throughout the years. Ralph was always around but being the younger brother was forbidden to be around us (not that he wanted to make up dances with us). We said hi during high school and when I needed a jersey to wear to school on Fridays, Ralph was nice enough to let me wear his. He visited Kent State while I was there once to look at the football team and campus but decided against attending. He joined the Marine Corps and we spoke through emails every now and then just to see how the other was doing. Life went on and our paths finally crossed again in 2008 when Colleen invited me to their families yearly 4th of July party. Ralph was home on leave from Iraq and I just moved back to Cincinnati. This time when we saw each other things seemed a little different and the rest is history. In December 2011 we were engaged, July 2012 we were married, April 2013 we bought our first house and March 2014 we had our first child, Braxten! Each year has been more blessed than the last and we are so excited to see where our future takes us!

Thursday, December 17, 2015

Kane 7 months



A little late on posting about our baby girl at 7 months!!! 

  • She is still the happiest little girl in the world and becoming stronger and busier. 
  • She weighs 17b 13 oz and is filling out her 9 month clothes. She should be moving to 12 month clothes soon but we still have some adorable clothing I am squeezing her into - literally. 
  • She loves to sit and play with any toys that are around her and can sit there for 30 minutes or so! 
  • She is reaching for and picking up toys and transferring them from hand to hand. 
  • She has 2 teeth in the middle of the bottom jaw but chews on everything as if more are close to pop through. 
  • Kane likes all baby food except carrots I think. Every time she eats them she spits them out at me or tries to blow bubbles once they get into her mouth and they go all over the place. 
  • She is so entertained by B, she will watch him play and run around with a few sister kisses in between. They are truly going to be great friends! 
  • She is taking two good naps and a cat nap still in the evening. 
They seem to only be awake at the same time in the early morning and the evening so we get to have a lot of one on one time with each kid and although there is not a lot of quiet time right now, we are never going to get these amazing moments back! We are loving life and our happy little family!









Sunday, December 6, 2015

Ohio State vs #ichigan

Buckeye win! We had a great time having friends over for the game and celebrating an OSU win! 31 people came to hang out - it was so much fun to get everyone together on a Saturday afternoon, relax, let the kids play and watch some football. We really do have the best friends in the world! We had such a good time we didn't take many pictures. But Kane did wear our favorite homemade gift for this game, a onesie - "I have a Michigan in my diaper" hahaha!





Braxten in 2014 and Kane in 2015!

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving was at our house this year and it went off without a hitch! Everyone pitched in and brought food to share and it was all amazing! Daddy fried a turkey again and it was delicious!!! We had a great time with both sides of the family. Cousins played and ran around like crazy, football was on tv and food was eaten for hours. We are truly thankful to have both of our parents and family together for holidays, it makes the saying "the more the merrier" a perfect motto for us. The other Eckel family was missed but we get to see them again soon! Happy holidays everyone!!!






























Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Trip to Cleveland!!!!

We had SO much fun! Braxten, Kane and I went to Cleveland to visit Jason, Sarah, Rylan and CJ! We had the best time ever!!! We were able to watch Rylan do an FMU class (just like Ninja warrior) and play in a basketball game, we danced constantly and jumped around with CJ all weekend long, watched a terrible football game with OSU and MSU, had amazing home cooked meals and snacks, allowed B full roaming of the house with stairs included (he did great), CJ fed Kane almost every bottle and set up all diaper changes (she thought the smelly ones were so gross!), saw the first snow fall of the year (and Kane's first time ever), built forts, shot some hoops outside, watched the AMAs and my favorite movie, Elf and even had a sister trip to Target! We were there from Thursday afternoon until Monday morning and loved every second. Sarah took on both Kane and B as I went to watch Rylan at both his sporting events - hats off to her as one truly magnificent aunt :) She fed B and Kane bottles, put Kane down for several naps or bed, changed diapers, played one on one with both of them, fed them snacks and gave me supportive encouraging words regarding raising these crazy babies. I can only pray to be half the mother she is to Rylan and CJ. The kids played amazingly together and Kane just loved to watch everyone as she would smile, laugh and eat. Braxten had not slept in a pack and play for about a year and struggled the first night a little but did well. It only got better as we stayed longer. Kane had no issues at all, she slept in a pack and play in a closet. They were so well behaved with a few minor breakdowns (although when you are at someone else's house they feel major). They did really well in the car too - it was Kane's first road trip and she only cried for 14 minutes on the way up and about 5 on the way home. Braxten did well also - he stayed up the whole time on the way there as I handed him food with every noise he made and took 1.5 hour nap on the way back home. We had an Elmo movie on for part of the trip and he watched intermittently as he is not a huge TV watcher. It was truly a needed trip for the kids to get to a new environment and have new entertainment for a few days. There is nothing like a short trip away to see family that you miss so much! I cannot say enough about the welcoming we felt as we took over the house with diaper stations, toys, thrown and dropped food on the floor, a chaotic 20 month old sprinting everywhere and having every door shut and still we felt no added stress throughout the visit (we may have caused some though). My only regret is that we don't live closer although we will be visiting more often!